Have you ever read Filipino literature? Not just your regular Filipino “komiks” or “kwentong bayan” but rather socially significant stories, which at first seems trivial but apparently they act not as a reflection of reality but rather the writer’s perception of it. It began last week in our LitFili class. As the name suggests the class is the study of Philippine Literature, but more contemporary and socially significant stories written in English.
The two stories taken up for blog discussion were “My Father Goes to Court” by Carlos Bulosan and “How my Brother Leon Brought Home a Wife” by Manuel Arguilla. Manuel Arguilla and Carlos Bulosan depict the Filipino beautifully through their short stories. It is amazing how the complexities of out culture can be brought out in such simple stories.
[“How my Brother Leon Brought Home a Wife” by Manuel Arguilla - Get it here]
“My Father Goes to Court” is a tale of how a family, though financially incapable, not only survives but lives their lives to the fullest through laughter and love. Though later on they are accused of stealing their neighbor’s wealth and food but only through spirit. Through this short satire we get a glimpse of how Bulosan sees the Filipinos, kindhearted, lighthearted and very family oriented. He describes the Filipinos to be always happy or make light of dire situations as well as our “Barangay” nature, to include everyone even those who aren’t in our immediate family in all that we do.
“How my Brother Leon Brought Home a Wife” is a short story, a highly descriptive short story, of how Baldo, a young province boy, drives his brother and his brother’s wife home. A story so simple but the genius lies between the lines as it tells a book’s worth of our culture. Arguilla’s subtlety conceals the intricacies of our culture through a short journey in the backcountry. This short story depicts our culture’s family oriented nature as well as its wariness for change. We are indeed very close nit when it comes to our families, as well as the elderly being extremely traditional and often they find it hard accept change.
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Filipino Values? Well I’d like to think we still have the traditional values we’re still known for, such as being hospitable, loving, caring (care giving?), etc. More often than not when we ask about Filipino Values there are always two that crop up. Those are: We are extremely family oriented and close nit as well as being extremely Christian.
I definitely agree, when we say Family we really say FAMILY. I’ve had experiences where those who are usually called 2nd or 3rd cousins in most countries (well ours as well but you know what I mean) are considered Immediate family to most of us. I mean I have a tita who isn’t really my tita (she’s not a tranny, just very distant).
I can also say that we Filipinos are very Christian, it’s a bit ironic though I mean Christianity was used to conquer us and when it comes to conquering history dictates that religion is key to being able to capture the people. It is a tool used to silence the “indios”. In the Philippines everyone’s houses and in every nook and cranny of that house would probably have an image or idol of saints, Mary and Jesus. That’s how Christian we are, so much so that our priests and cardinals have more authority in running our country (and I thought there was separation of church and state :P Crucify them!). I guess you can say its still a tool being used to conquer the people.
But on a lighter note, I'd like say that Filipinos are definitely hospitable especially in other countries when encountering fellow Filipinos. I had this experience last year while I was in Mexico covering the Bayanihan National Dance Company of the Phil. Right after one of their shows, there was a crowd of elderly women that came rushing to the backstage shouting and crying. At first I could not make out what they were saying, it wasn’t Spanish nor was it in English. I was surprised to realize that as soon as they got close it was tagalog. “Kabayan! Kabayan!” one woman exclaimed in a shakey voice. These were Filipina women who were working overseas. As we met them they couldn’t stop hugging and kissing each of the members as if they were longtime friends addressing each other in their first names. Invites to dinner or lunch or whatever they could offer were given, it was extremely surprising and touching that they would go through all that trouble. That was a memorable experience and touching one at that, I’m glad I was there. It’s something I’d like other Filipinos to experience so you do know that when they say Filipinos are hospitable it isn’t BullSh*t.
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hi marton, this is a really rich reaction. i wanted to comment on many points that you made but the anecdote towards the last just really--what'st it?--broke my heart? (i could hear jed say "AAwww") hehe.
it's a sad fact...there are so many of us disperesed filipinos out there missing the philippines like hell. i hope you could get the read "the day the dancers came" by bienvenido santos. it's a sad, eloquent story about 2 elderly filipinos in the states and it's strikingly similar to the incident you related.
ms. dianne's right. the last part was heartwrenching because it is true.
anyway, i agree to most of what you've written here. hehe. especially the parts that you discussed Filipino families. i can feel and sense that your family is one of those families you can say tight. hehe. :)
I definitely agree that religion here in the Philippines is being used as a tool; however, I do not think that it is really used to spread the word of God and to get more worshipers. Instead, I think it's being used for personal gain.
Now, don't get me wrong. I'm not attacking the people's faith. It's just that sometimes these "supposed" religious leaders take advantage of the people's devotion to increase their wealth.
For example, that Velarde guy. To me, a true worshiper would not accept material things. Isn't it that according to the bible, followers should live a simple life? I doubt that Velarde is living such. In fact, he owns a big house. And you call that true devotion?
It seems our government is not only the one that is corrupt.
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